If you are presently involved in a child custody dispute (or might be involved in one in the future) we have identified information of great importance that you should have.

THIS INFORMATION WILL HELP YOU, AS A FATHER, MAKE YOUR STRONGEST CASE FOR CUSTODY. It will also directly help protect your children now and in the future. Your children will thank you one day for taking “their best interests” seriously!

First, we would like you to know how we have come to be in possession of so much important information. Over the 30-plus years of our working in the child custody field, we have become increasingly involved in cases that frequently may find their way into court. We have acted as expert witnesses, custody evaluators or consultants for hundreds of parents involved in custody disputes all over the country.

Further, as editors of a national publication on custody matters, as responders to a 24-hour “hotline” where we answer questions from professionals about our tests, and as directors of a national organization of custody experts, we continually hear from judges, attorneys, professional experts and parents who in one way or another have been caught up in custody disputes, some of them simple, but most longstanding, complex and bitter.

As a result of all of these activities, we came to gather a huge amount of information on how various psychological and legal strategies, different kinds of evidence, and types of allegations work (or fail to work), both in the courtroom as well as in out-of-court negotiations.

The following are some of our thoughts on what we have experienced. Everything discussed here is covered in our new Strategies handbook.

We were shocked at how many bright, wise, loving—indeed even “savvy”—fathers did not know the single most important fact that must be true if one is to prevail in a custody dispute. And this must be the best kept secret in the world, because even extremely intelligent, sophisticated professionals fail to make use of it. Indeed, even attorneys, who themselves as parents are caught up in custody disputes, frequently do not know how to make his single most important factor work for them.

We identified fourteen “key behaviors” that differentiate between parents who do well in custody disputes from those who do not. We consider these behaviors to be strategically critical.

We have identified what we see as the single biggest mistake a father in a custody dispute can make. And the irony here is that our own legal system actually encourages fathers to make this huge mistake.

If you are a father in a child custody dispute, you must learn to recognize (and deal with) blatantly wrong and immoral strategies that will likely be used against you. To add insult to injury, these strategies can be effective. And in our experience, many attorneys fail to help their clients deal with these tragically effective strategies, because they are more psychological than legal strategies, and attorneys are not often trained either to recognize or deal with them.

Another exceedingly important point is that too many fathers do not fully understand all the important things their attorneys should be doing for them. Simply put, many fathers do not know what they should ask for.

While on the topic of attorneys, we also discovered two important strategies that will literally “force” an attorney to do a better job for a client.

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My friend’s girlfriend was living with him during the time that she got pregnant. Soon after when it was time for her to give birth, she went to move home which is in another state to have her daughter. He then moved to her state in order to be with her and his child; He had a decent paying job and all of the money he made went directly into her bank account. Eventually they broke up and he find out that during the end of her pregnancy she was talking to another man behind his back. Regardless, he was still living with her for the sake of their child. But the week after they broke up she started dating this guy. She did say he was allowed to live with her but she wanted to continue dating different people. Given these circumstances, he decided to move back home because he couldn’t be with her while she was dating someone else. He didn’t have anyone while he was living with her and his daughter(such as family, friends, etc.) Now they fight frequently and many times she will not let him see or talk to their child. She wants child support, but now he is stuck looking for another job in his state.

She treats him disrespectfully and blocks him on face book where she updates pictures and videos of her daughter. Not only this, she does talk lowly on her FB about him and how he isn’t a good father. She did re-add him at one point just to taunt him about how great her new boyfriend is and how he’d make a good father. My friend kept texts and messages that supports his side on proof on how she treats him and kept the child from him. She is completely unwilling to try and make the relationship work and she’s trying to have her new boyfriend take the place of being the father; This man has only been in her life for a couple of months. So right now my friend is a train wreck burning and all he wants the rights for his child and doesn‘t have money to pay child support. But it’s impossible by the way she keeps her from him and she lives in another state.

What should he do about this?

First, he has no legal rights to see the child. He voluntarily gave up that right the moment he had sex with her. Now only a court can grant him those rights, which will be in her state. However, he cannot even consider doing that until he is under a court order for child support. These will teach him what he needs to know.

http://dads-house.org/Paternity-WhatMenNeed2Know

http://ChildSupportRights.org/WhatPayersNeed2Know

http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLC8077B1999DA0324

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Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook for Non-Custodial Parents

http://childsupportrights.org/

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To learn a father’s rights, join Dads House Educational Center in Yahoo Groups. It’s free to join and access all materials. You also associate with other fathers going through, and have already gone through, the same issues. We have an Educational Manual that teaches everything that needs to be known in addressing your legal issues. Mention your question here when asked why you want to join, as well as your state?

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Dads_House_Ed_Ctr/

http://www.youtube.com/DadsHouseEdCtr

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2nd Wife Club in Yahoo Groups, for those brave enough to take on a man with "baggage".

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/2ndwifeclub/

http://www.facebook.com/proudstepmoms

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For 22 years, I have volunteered my time working with divorced/single fathers dealing in family law issues, such as child support, teaching them about what the states are not telling support obligors.
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www.goldbergjones-wa.com/

1200 Westlake Ave. N
Suite 700
Seattle, WA 98109
(206) 448-1010

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Seattle child custody lawyer Eric Engel says that the first thing to do when trying to get full custody of your children is find out if there is a parenting plan in place.

A parenting plan is basically Washington’s version of custody in which timesharing and parental duties are mapped out. If you currently have a plan you can look to modify it or if you don’t, you should file a petition to get a parenting plan. If you’re still married, you will also need to file for divorce or legal separation. The court will look at a variety of things to determine who the best parent for custodial rights is. These things include being in a stable situation and flexible employment. Also, issues like drug or alcohol use, criminal history, and domestic violence history can radically affect custody rights. Watch the video now to learn more.

For more information about personal injury law and my firm, visit our educational website at http://www.engelatlaw.com, where we talk about several different areas of practice in our blog. If you have legal questions, I want you to call me at (206) 625-9800. I welcome your call.

Engel Law Group, P.S.
Office Address:
One Union Square
600 University St, Suite 1904
Seattle, WA 98101
Phone: 206-315-6183
Fax: 206-243-8177

Everett Office:
1610 Broadway Ave
Everett, WA 98201

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Without more info on this, I cannot say what specific rights she has. Him or you need to join Dads House to give more explanation, along with the state he lives in.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Dads_House_Ed_Ctr/