I am a young guy I have tried to make things work with the mother of my kids, she pretty much is illogical, irrational, and impossible to get along with sometimes. It is the worst case scenario for me but I may have to accept that we are not going to make it. It takes two people to be willing to compromise and understand and she is unwilling on all levels. I have had personal property destroyed over silly things such as turning on a light when she wants it off and other silly things such as that. Are their any fathers out there who have been able to get custody in the event the parents split. If not, are you able to be very much involved. Is it hard when the mother meets someone else and they are around your kid all the time?
Thanks
Your current state laws have much to do with how well it goes, or doesn’t go , for you.
In my husband’s case, the mother was proven unfit, unstable, and I’ll use your own words ; illogical, irrational, and impossible to get along with sometimes, and was also proven to have gone to great lengths to alienate their daughter from her father. And yet, when it came down to it (state laws and all of that ), they judge felt that it would be detrimental to remove their daughter from the mother’s custody because she had already had so many changes in her young life.
Yeah, consider that her mother and she had lived in 11 different places within 6 years, and her mother had been through marriages number 1, 2, and 3 in that same amount of time. That IS certainly lots of changes for a young child to live through.
Yet, state law, in California, obviously favors the mother, no matter whether it’s a sound decision or not.
I suggest that you research your own state…… and also prepare yourself for the worst.
Also, if it doesn’t end up going well for you, there are online support groups and advocates for father’s rights.
Anyplace but Y!A…. for some reason, it’s not okay for a father (or his wife) to complain when things don’t go his way in court, they’re just expected to sit down, shut up, and finish the ride.
The final version of the documentary about the discrimination against fathers in custody cases, and the mayhem it causes in our societies.
Members of the fathers’ rights movement assert that fathers are discriminated against as a result of gender bias in family law, that custody decisions have been a denial of equal rights,and that the influence of money has corrupted family law.The movement’s primary focus has been to campaign (including lobbying and research) for formal legal rights for fathers, and sometimes for children, and to campaign for changes to family law related to child custody, support and maintenance, domestic violence and the family court system itself.Fathers rights groups also provide emotional and practical support for members during separation and divorce.
Father of an abducted child Patrick Baden spoke to Harry Smith about a father’s international custody win to get his son back from Brazil.
Father of an abducted child Patrick Baden spoke to Harry Smith about a father’s international custody win to get his son back from Brazil.
We’re all aware that mothers are given preference, but, this stereotyping also includes favoritism for relatives as well. And, in some cases, this reaches the international level. Interestingly, other regions have the same gynocentric beliefs. this clip pertains to custody dispute, fathers rights, etc.
The father and son reunited Thursday after a five-year custody battle that crossed two countries will be in Orlando on Thursday afternoon.
