I don’t know how this works, I’m a teenage father, my son Reminds me to much of his mother and I can’t take the heartbreak. We’re no longer together. I was wondering if I could give my custody to her fully without any repercussions. I kinda Just want to go hide under a rock somewhere. Not be bothered by anyone. Any answer would help. Please.
leaving the child, because the child looks like mother. Leaving the child and the child has no say in how he/she looks. All of this will effect your baby. And the child will know in heart that you left because of feelings, feelings that are about self- feelings that are selfish. And your feelings of Love, of which you should & most likley would have, as a parent, should outwiegh the feelings of regret that this child is a daily look-a-like of mom. Do you care for the heart of the child more than the temptations to run within your own heart? its a parents responsibility to care for the child, raise it, give it wisdom, mold its conscience towards loving whats right, even when its hard. When someone gives up a child, but, was meant to keep it, they have heartbreak & problems later, for they have severed a heaven-sent & destined connection. And you wont be happy outside of your purpose. Can you get outside of you, now that you have a child in the earth now? can you live with your self, knowing that you ran away as a child, from your child.. but, GOD has more for you..and definately has more for the child…and you are here to give into that ione that you are ordained to be in connection with.. now, you dont have to have connection with mom..you can arrange for someone else to deal with her, oin visits, if needed.. But, you cant be a runaway..it sounds as if mom already has done so, as well, now you are like her, right.. If this is all true.. then it sounds as if the baby has 2 heartbreaks bigger than yours before she even can grow to say one word. You will break babys heart, your own heart,..you’ll never be happy following temptation to be less than what God has for you to be.. it looks tempting, it looks good, it looks easier, but….. what’s in the end thereof?
The answer is Jesus