Parent Custody Blog » Parent Custody http://www.parentcustodyblog.com Helping keep you informed on Parent Custody issues.... Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:44:15 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Parent Custody – One parent’s look at a broken custody and support system http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parent-custody-a%c2%80%c2%93-one-parenta%c2%80%c2%99s-look-at-a-broken-custody-and-support-system http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parent-custody-a%c2%80%c2%93-one-parenta%c2%80%c2%99s-look-at-a-broken-custody-and-support-system#comments Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:44:33 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parent-custody-a%c2%80%c2%93-one-parenta%c2%80%c2%99s-look-at-a-broken-custody-and-support-system

I am a father of three boys.  I have one of them living with me as his mother had some “issues”.  I am the one with parent custody (placement is the actual correct term here). The other two are living with their mom and I haven’t seen them in about a year and a half due to her new husband and father in law both being lawyers and some mistakes in dealing with her on my part.  So obviously in this case she is the one who has parent custody.

 

One of the problems that I have seen in this system, which has worked both for and against me, is that unless you can afford a lawyer, your rights usually are not enforced.  This is something that can be good and bad, but will rarely take into account what is best for the child or children.  If both parties are reasonable, they can usually work things out, even if neither is entirely comfortable with the end result.  This is usually when both parents are looking out for the child as opposed to their own self-interests. 

 

The flip side of this is that one or both parties are not reasonable.  This is far more common, and will usually end with either the person who is able to best afford the lawyer getting their way, assuming it’s not totally outrageous, or an ongoing legal battle in which the children become pawns.  Neither of these options are good for the kids more often than not. 

 

People need to learn to drop their agendas, their personal hurts, their own selfish wants and whatever bad feelings are left over for the sake of their kids.  This in and of itself would solve a lot of issues when it comes to the parent custody issue.  Think about it, and then think of your kids.  It can make all the difference in the world.

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/judge-judy-children-first-full-and-complete-access-to-both-parents-custody/feed 4 Steps to give the other parent the custody over children? http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/steps-to-give-the-other-parent-the-custody-over-children http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/steps-to-give-the-other-parent-the-custody-over-children#comments Tue, 31 Jan 2012 04:25:08 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/steps-to-give-the-other-parent-the-custody-over-children What are the steps to give the other parent custody of children? I receive child support from that parent, we dont want to get lawyers involved,we both agreed to the custody change, who do we have to inform or what paperwork has to be done in order to stop child support from being given to me, and to have the children under his name? Im from Georgia hes from Florida

if he is the biological father you don’t need custody papers, all he needs is there social security cards. unless he plans on getting child SUPPORT from you. your the natural parents, your in agreement why do you need something in writing. but you can go to the county court clerks office, and they will tell you where you can get the change of custody papers, and child SUPPORT papers, called a abstract

]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/steps-to-give-the-other-parent-the-custody-over-children/feed 5 Russian mother wins custody of kid http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/russian-mother-wins-custody-of-kid http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/russian-mother-wins-custody-of-kid#comments Mon, 30 Jan 2012 13:22:11 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/russian-mother-wins-custody-of-kid Six-year-old Aleksandra has finally arrived in Russia, her native land, though she has never been here before. On Monday, a Portuguese court returned the girl, living with a Portuguese couple, to her Russian mother.

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/russian-mother-wins-custody-of-kid/feed 25 Protective Parent Larry, lost custody of his child in Sedgwick County, KS http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/protective-parent-larry-lost-custody-of-his-child-in-sedgwick-county-ks http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/protective-parent-larry-lost-custody-of-his-child-in-sedgwick-county-ks#comments Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:01:23 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/protective-parent-larry-lost-custody-of-his-child-in-sedgwick-county-ks Jan. 3, 2012. Larry spoke before the South Central Legislative Delegation.
Larry lost custody of his daughter after reporting that his child was being abused. Larry tried to file a motion in Sedgwick County Juvenile Court to be heard and was denied.
The real question is why aren’t children being protected in Sedgwick County? Why is the Sedgwick County DA’s office filing false petitions against protective parents to remove children from from their custody and then recommend that those children be placed in the homes of their abusers?

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/protective-parent-larry-lost-custody-of-his-child-in-sedgwick-county-ks/feed 0 New Jersey Parents who named their child Adolf Hitler, lose custody of newborn http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/new-jersey-parents-who-named-their-child-adolf-hitler-lose-custody-of-newborn http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/new-jersey-parents-who-named-their-child-adolf-hitler-lose-custody-of-newborn#comments Fri, 13 Jan 2012 15:38:11 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/new-jersey-parents-who-named-their-child-adolf-hitler-lose-custody-of-newborn http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11/19/new-jersey-parents-who-named-child-adolf-hitler-lose-custody-newborn/?test=latestnews&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-bb%7Cdl6%7Csec3_lnk1%7C114299

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/new-jersey-parents-who-named-their-child-adolf-hitler-lose-custody-of-newborn/feed 10 Can a parent without full custody keep me in his home if I want to go back to my moms? http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/can-a-parent-without-full-custody-keep-me-in-his-home-if-i-want-to-go-back-to-my-moms http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/can-a-parent-without-full-custody-keep-me-in-his-home-if-i-want-to-go-back-to-my-moms#comments Fri, 13 Jan 2012 02:38:12 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/can-a-parent-without-full-custody-keep-me-in-his-home-if-i-want-to-go-back-to-my-moms My parents are divorced and I live with my mom. I am 17 and at my dads who does not have full custody. Can he keep me here if I want to go home?

Probably not at 17. If u were younger ud have to stay for whatever court ordered visitation but at ur age if u walked out u might get away w it n just refuse to go back. Have ur mom put in for a change in visitation and when she goes to court u go w her n tell the judge u no longer wish to have visitation w ur father.

]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/can-a-parent-without-full-custody-keep-me-in-his-home-if-i-want-to-go-back-to-my-moms/feed 6 Mother Gives Up Custody Of Mentally Ill Son http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/mother-gives-up-custody-of-mentally-ill-son http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/mother-gives-up-custody-of-mentally-ill-son#comments Thu, 05 Jan 2012 10:01:21 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/mother-gives-up-custody-of-mentally-ill-son A year after Nebraska’s safe haven crisis, some families are still giving up custody of their children.

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/mother-gives-up-custody-of-mentally-ill-son/feed 0 Non-custodial Parent Support Groups part 2 http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/non-custodial-parent-support-groups-part-2 http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/non-custodial-parent-support-groups-part-2#comments Wed, 28 Dec 2011 03:50:01 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/non-custodial-parent-support-groups-part-2 Dan Cuneo speaks with Michael Doherty about support groups for non-custodial parents.

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]]> http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/non-custodial-parent-support-groups-part-2/feed 0 Parents Lose Custody Of Adolf Hitler http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parents-lose-custody-of-adolf-hitler http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parents-lose-custody-of-adolf-hitler#comments Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:27:22 +0000 admin http://www.parentcustodyblog.com/parent-custody/parents-lose-custody-of-adolf-hitler An American couple who named their children Adolf Hitler, Joyce Lynn “Aryan-Nation” Campbell & Honz Lynn “Himmler” Campbell have lost custody of their three children.

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