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1. We have addressed ad naseum that widows are exempt from criticism, and you know as well as I do that widows are only a fraction of the total numbers of single mothers.
2. I’m a single father. Honestly, encouraging women to stay away from men like me is not a problem at all. I enjoy not being in a committed relationship. I enjoy not having to worry about birthdays, valintines day, christmas’s, or going on god-forsaken “dates.”
Ok..but what about … Ok..but what about single fathers, or men who have children? Why is it that I do not hear people encouraging women to stay away from these types of men? Although I am not a mother, I think it’s a bit unfair encourage men not to date ALL single mothers. How do we know that perhaps that single mother was married and her husband died, thus placing her in the position to be a single mother?
Good answer. … Good answer. Believe it or not when I reached my 40s I had got the attitude that what that woman had between her legs was only a tool to get what she wants and as far as I am concerned I didn’t care if I got the puss or not. I could always masturbate or get a trick or one night stand. The “they use us, let’s use them” attitude.
Intentionally or … Intentionally or NOT, Beggars, Manginas, and Simps all fall under the umberella of being ‘weak’ men.
They are the ‘kissing cousins’ of ‘nice men’ simply because each type of man fails to address issues and poor behavior pertaining to women in a honest, quick, and upfront manner.
IF ‘getting some’ requires THAT a man must sacrifice his integrity and emotional well-being THEN ‘getting some’ may prove more detrimental then gratifying.
In an environment … In an environment where women disporportionately outnumber men and economic viability is becoming increasingly difficult, access to punani should not be a problem.
Often-times, you have to ask the question, what are you willingly to tolerate, as a man?
I understand it now … I understand it now. But as single men and me being a single man how do you suppose we gratify ourselves when that day comes when we want some punany? (I’m not being sarcastic)
In their quest for … In their quest for punanni, this is one of the main concepts a lot of young men fail to grasp or simply don’t care to deal with.
If men want change, we have to stop be enablers.
Bottomline: These women behave as they do because AT the end of the day, they will be REWARDED because some knucklehead IS going TO overlook their poor behavior and GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT.
One of the MAIN … One of the MAIN reasons, a lot of men are disillusioned and down RIGHT angry IS because while reflecting on their PAST RELATIONSHIPS with women; the men in question come to the realization THAT overlooking poor behavior COST them, dearly.
You can sense in MOST of these men, regret and IF they could go back and rectify the situation; THEY would.
Why ? Oftentimes, the woman in question WAS REWARDED and RECEIVED far MORE than her behavior and treatment toward said man warranted.
To overlook poor … To overlook poor behavior, based primarily on a woman’s sexuality, was to give THAT woman total control of the relationship and in essences create a FRANKENSTEIN monster. And, we ALL know the type of chaos the monster ultimately caused his creator.
[Back in the day, we referred to 'standing up against' or 'calling out poor behavior' as putting *someone in check*. Men willingly dealt with the repercussions, the silent treatment and/or the denial of punanni by women, because we knew the end result of the situation IF we choose to remain silent and/or overlooked poor behavior.]
I submit that BY … I submit that BY overlooking poor behavior; you ultimately reward THAT particular behavior, whether it is out of temptation or weakness, it does not matter.
Back in the day, we referred to ‘standing up against’ or ‘calling out poor behavior’ as putting *someone in check*. Men willingly dealt with the repercussions, the silent treatment and/or the denial of punanni, because we knew the repercussions of the situation IF we remained silent and/or overlooked poor behavior.
“Also, men do not … “Also, men do not reward this behaviorthey just overlook it because they are hypnotized by . That happens to all of us.” I agree. There are some of us who will do almost anything to get that booty, married, commited or single and that’s because of temptation of man. You can go back to Adam and Eve on that one. Not that Adam wanted to have sex with Eve but he was tempted by Eve just as she was tempted by the serpant.
Agree 100% with you … Agree 100% with you. But check this out. The reason they say this is because WE (men) helped make the baby whether we wanted it or not. Look man, these women wanted these babies just to keep the man and when the man makes a decision for instance, not to want the child they get mad.
Lets say a woman does get pregnant, and wants to keep the kid. The male has no choice in the matter, nor does he have a choice if the female wants to abort. Woman are ALWAYS saying, “man up, and take care of yours” How the is it ours if we have no say in the first place?!!! Second, why don’t you “woman up” and get your own job to support you, BEFORE you have a kid. Why are you leaving it up to a man to pay for your kid??
“This has to be … “This has to be true. A couple of years ago I overheard a girl at my job whom was about 20 years old talking about how she is paying her own way through school(ODU). That is just plain old dishonesty. You dont PAY your way through school, you get a loan. If you do have money to pay for school straight up than you really dont need school. ”
Men have no need to "improve" themselves to keep women happy. …
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
@Annazayla
1. We …
@Annazayla
1. We have addressed ad naseum that widows are exempt from criticism, and you know as well as I do that widows are only a fraction of the total numbers of single mothers.
2. I’m a single father. Honestly, encouraging women to stay away from men like me is not a problem at all. I enjoy not being in a committed relationship. I enjoy not having to worry about birthdays, valintines day, christmas’s, or going on god-forsaken “dates.”
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Ok..but what about …
Ok..but what about single fathers, or men who have children? Why is it that I do not hear people encouraging women to stay away from these types of men? Although I am not a mother, I think it’s a bit unfair encourage men not to date ALL single mothers. How do we know that perhaps that single mother was married and her husband died, thus placing her in the position to be a single mother?
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Great video …
Great video Thugtician!
You have a great speaking voice and you are intelligent. Please make a video response to my videos entitled:
‘Ten Reasons Black Men Wont Date Or Marry Black Women’.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
You are a genius.
You are a genius.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Good answer. …
Good answer. Believe it or not when I reached my 40s I had got the attitude that what that woman had between her legs was only a tool to get what she wants and as far as I am concerned I didn’t care if I got the puss or not. I could always masturbate or get a trick or one night stand. The “they use us, let’s use them” attitude.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Frankly, ‘getting …
Frankly, ‘getting some’ is beginning to be just about as big a high risk move as marrying.
And, like marriage, more and more men are tiring of the social waltz that is required of them to participate.
FreedomBlaque
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Intentionally or …
Intentionally or NOT, Beggars, Manginas, and Simps all fall under the umberella of being ‘weak’ men.
They are the ‘kissing cousins’ of ‘nice men’ simply because each type of man fails to address issues and poor behavior pertaining to women in a honest, quick, and upfront manner.
IF ‘getting some’ requires THAT a man must sacrifice his integrity and emotional well-being THEN ‘getting some’ may prove more detrimental then gratifying.
continue
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
In an environment …
In an environment where women disporportionately outnumber men and economic viability is becoming increasingly difficult, access to punani should not be a problem.
Often-times, you have to ask the question, what are you willingly to tolerate, as a man?
continue
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
I understand it now …
I understand it now. But as single men and me being a single man how do you suppose we gratify ourselves when that day comes when we want some punany? (I’m not being sarcastic)
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
correction: If men …
correction: If men want change, we have to stop being enablers
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
In their quest for …
In their quest for punanni, this is one of the main concepts a lot of young men fail to grasp or simply don’t care to deal with.
If men want change, we have to stop be enablers.
Bottomline: These women behave as they do because AT the end of the day, they will be REWARDED because some knucklehead IS going TO overlook their poor behavior and GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT.
FreedomBlaque
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
One of the MAIN …
One of the MAIN reasons, a lot of men are disillusioned and down RIGHT angry IS because while reflecting on their PAST RELATIONSHIPS with women; the men in question come to the realization THAT overlooking poor behavior COST them, dearly.
You can sense in MOST of these men, regret and IF they could go back and rectify the situation; THEY would.
Why ? Oftentimes, the woman in question WAS REWARDED and RECEIVED far MORE than her behavior and treatment toward said man warranted.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
To overlook poor …
To overlook poor behavior, based primarily on a woman’s sexuality, was to give THAT woman total control of the relationship and in essences create a FRANKENSTEIN monster. And, we ALL know the type of chaos the monster ultimately caused his creator.
continue
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
correction:
[ ...
correction:
[Back in the day, we referred to 'standing up against' or 'calling out poor behavior' as putting *someone in check*. Men willingly dealt with the repercussions, the silent treatment and/or the denial of punanni by women, because we knew the end result of the situation IF we choose to remain silent and/or overlooked poor behavior.]
continue
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
I submit that BY …
I submit that BY overlooking poor behavior; you ultimately reward THAT particular behavior, whether it is out of temptation or weakness, it does not matter.
Back in the day, we referred to ‘standing up against’ or ‘calling out poor behavior’ as putting *someone in check*. Men willingly dealt with the repercussions, the silent treatment and/or the denial of punanni, because we knew the repercussions of the situation IF we remained silent and/or overlooked poor behavior.
continue
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
“Also, men do not …
“Also, men do not reward this behaviorthey just overlook it because they are hypnotized by . That happens to all of us.” I agree. There are some of us who will do almost anything to get that booty, married, commited or single and that’s because of temptation of man. You can go back to Adam and Eve on that one. Not that Adam wanted to have sex with Eve but he was tempted by Eve just as she was tempted by the serpant.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Agree 100% with you …
Agree 100% with you. But check this out. The reason they say this is because WE (men) helped make the baby whether we wanted it or not. Look man, these women wanted these babies just to keep the man and when the man makes a decision for instance, not to want the child they get mad.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
All me should be …
All me should be required to listen to this.
white,black,brown.you sir are on the mark.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
very true, this is …
very true, this is why you need to marry a chick outside of the west cause its crazy out here
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
How utterly sad!
…
How utterly sad!
But how utterly true!
As the French say: ‘je suis desolle’
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
03:09 ….
03:09 ….
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Agree
Agree
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Agree 100% with …
Agree 100% with this video.
Lets say a woman does get pregnant, and wants to keep the kid. The male has no choice in the matter, nor does he have a choice if the female wants to abort. Woman are ALWAYS saying, “man up, and take care of yours” How the is it ours if we have no say in the first place?!!! Second, why don’t you “woman up” and get your own job to support you, BEFORE you have a kid. Why are you leaving it up to a man to pay for your kid??
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
This video is a …
This video is a classic.
March 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
“This has to be …
“This has to be true. A couple of years ago I overheard a girl at my job whom was about 20 years old talking about how she is paying her own way through school(ODU). That is just plain old dishonesty. You dont PAY your way through school, you get a loan. If you do have money to pay for school straight up than you really dont need school. ”
Clarify your point, and I will respond TO IT.
FreedomBlack