Need to establish custody of 9 month old son due to his father and I no longer together. We are not married

well the honor system doesnt work, thats for sure. thats why the states and federal governent passed such strong child support laws. they are tired of parents who dont pay for their kids.

married or not, both parents have to pitch in for raising their child. Hes NOT gonna like it. he's gonna boo hoo about his rights, when that childs rights comes before ALL of our rights, period.

heres the link to your state child support office. call them and ask how you begin the process (its easy, and they walk you through it).

http://www.dss.state.la.us/departments/ofs/Support_Enforcement_Services.html

if the link doesnt work for you just go to www.la.gov and put 'child support' into the blank search box. it'll find it for you.

the application you need is RIGHT THERE (just scroll down and find it). when you download it, and fill it out, follow the instructions and send it out, submit them.

here are some links for you. one is a child support calculator; just click on your state and fill it in. this will give you a general idea as to what the child support will be. other links here are in case you have other questions (child support, visitation, custody), etc.; just click on your state and find the section you need. the last few are to help you (sometimes the redcross has cheap cars, the salvation army helps with everything).

http://www.wantedposters.com/deadbeats_usa_a_to_f.htm

http://www.deadbeatjustice.com/list.htm

http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm

http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html

http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm

http://www.divorcenet.com/states

http://www.divorcesource.com/

http://www.divorcecentral.com/

http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm

http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html

http://family.findlaw.com/

http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html

http://www.divorceinfo.com/

http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/

http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm

http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/

http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html

http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html

http://www.ncsea.org/

http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml

http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html

http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html

http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/

http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html

http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html

http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/

http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html

http://www.supportkids.com/

http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm

http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm

http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html

http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html

http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html

http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html

http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php

SEX OFFENDERS

http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/

http://www.scanusa.com/

http://www.nsopr.gov/

http://www.familywatchdog.us/Default.asp

http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/collectchildsupport

http://www.aclu.org/womensrights/violence/23929res20060125.html

http://www.womenslaw.org/

http://www.nwlc.org/

http://www.womenslawproject.org/

http://www.nwwlc.org/

http://www.women-law.org/

http://www.hg.org/women.html

http://www.law.com/jsp/nj/specials.jsp?p=contact

http://law-library.rutgers.edu/ilg/njlaw.php

http://www.aclu.org/womensrights/index.html

http://www.singlemoms.org/info/main.htm

http://www.singlemotherresources.com/

http://www.angelfire.com/nj4/njcomputerchick

http://www.parentswithoutpartners.org/chapterfind.asp

http://www.mowaa.org/

http://modestneeds.org/

http://freecycle.org/

http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/www_usn.nsf

http://www.redcross.org/where/chapts.asp

The laws are tough today. After you have the child support order, and he/she doesn’t pay…

1) contact your child support caseworker ask for an enforcement hearing or warrant to be issued
2) if you collect welfare or assistance of any kind, HE or SHE is responsible to repay it.
3) if the CS dept isnt working, contact the regional federal office (links below), that should put some heat on the case. Never a phone call, always WRITE them, better yet, fax the director. Give your contact info, case number and tell briefly what the problem is, and ask what they can do about it. heat is a good thing.
4) In some states it’s the Attorney General who you would write also, for they handle deadbeats.
5) if he/she is working under the table (which many do), you can have his/her property attached, and in some cases, forced to sell it.
6) if he/she is hiding it (putting things in others names [like their mommy for instance]), there are laws against it.
7) today, it is now a federal offense to run across state lines to avoid child support.
the states today take the deadbeats license away; suspend it.
9) the states today have tax refund intercept; state and federal on any refunds the deadbeat gets is taken, and funds sent to her.
10) States today also attach the wages (thus the working under the table trick). If you find where they are working, contact the cs caseworker and report it. also report it to the IRS if its under the table.
11) Today, child support arrears are reported on the deadbeats credit report (when it hits a certain amount). Call the caseworker and ask if it has been submitted to the credit reporting agencies yet.
12) Most states have a automatic cost of living raise in child support every 2 or 3 years.
13) Post his/her pic online at deadbeat sites; some states already do this, some do not. but you can submit to a couple I’ve listed below

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