Fathers Rights in Custody Issues

Fatherhood brings each reward and duty.

When families are split, though, custody issues arrive to the forefront, and fathers need the details to understand their custody rights.

In English typical law, kids had been seen as the house of fathers, who had a legal obligation to protect, assistance and educate the children.

In fact, fathers mostly taken care of undisputed child custody rights in the Usa throughout much with the 1800s.

Fathers now possess the same rights of custody as moms. In some cases, parents attain an agreement concerning primary kid custody.

In other cases, they work out an agreement through a mediator.

Bodily and legal child custody rights vary in what they entail. Physical rights relate to where the kid lives.

Legal custody rights, however, relate to which parent is awarded the right to create choices for the kid.

Decisions could apply to education, well being care, religion and extra-curricular actions by which the children are allowed to participate.

Visit here to find out more: http://best1stguide.com/custody-strategies

Duration : 0:1:7

Technorati Tags: adversarial, alienation, attorney, Case, child, children, custody, dallas, Daughters, divorce, family, fathers, feminism, for, gaining, getting, in, issues, judges, law, lawyers, Marriage;, misandry, mothers, Parental, rights, sons, Syndrome, system, Texas

October 31, 2011 – Japan’s NHK World- a feature story about the fight to create joint child custody and visitation rights in Japan.

Professor and psychologist Kazuo Tanase recommends:
1) visitation rights for non-custodial parents so they can spend a substantial amount of time with their children.
2) Separating and divorcing parents should have a parenting plan in place first.
3) Couples should be able to choose between sole-custody and joint-custody.

• Join Us at BAChome.org
• OUR CHILDREN NEED YOUR HELP!

Duration : 0:8:19

Technorati Tags: abducted, ABDUCTION, Akeo, Akihisa, alienation, behind, brown, CHARITY, child, children, children's, Convention, custody, family, Hague, Hirata, Human, in, International, japan, joint, Kazuo, kevin, Kuniyasu, Left, Masako, Parental, parents, pas, rights, steals, Syndrome, Tanase, treaty, Tsuji

“Four Strategies that can be effective when
a child has been bribed or manipulated into
turning against one of the parents”

AN ACTUAL CASE FROM THE FILES OF
DR. BARRY BRICKLIN and DR. GAIL ELLIOT
Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot are nationally-known child custody experts.
[CLICK HERE FOR THEIR BIOGRAPHIES]

One of the saddest situations happens when a child has been bribed or manipulated into turning against one of the parents–and frequently this parent is the better of the two parents. An actual case from our files illustrates what we are talking about. The daughter, a bright young girl of eleven, creates havoc whenever her parent, a warm and hardworking professional, attempts to phone or pick her up for a visit.

“You know I don’t like to see you!”

“I don’t want to talk now. I’m busy.” (The child slams the phone down.)

“You’re bothering us; don’t call me!” (The parent, rightly, wonders who the “us” is in this statement.)

And the parent frequently hears what is a sure sign of a bribed or manipulated child, words and sentences that are obviously not of the child’s own creation, but rather from the bitter and vindictive other parent:

“You decided to leave us. This is all your fault. You’re not entitled to share in my life anymore.”

Unfortunately, most mothers or fathers singled out to be the victims of such vitriolic attacks are poorly equipped to deal with them. They start out trying to be calm and loving, but all too soon are worn down by the hurt, frustration and road blocks continuously thrown up when they attempt contacts with the child. They end up either retreating, or counter-attacking—neither of which can lead to a happy outcome.

Duration : 0:0:56

Technorati Tags: alienation, child custody, Parental

Duration : 0:5:14

Technorati Tags: alienation, court, family, law, Parental

Couples should consider many things before really deciding to divorce.

A divorce will cause unpleasant effects because it involves various aspects of life.

Costs, mental, child custody, sharing of property ownership are some effects of a divorce.

How about the children?

Any condition that would happen, children should get more attention in this case.

Many divorced parents will struggle to gain custody of their children.

This is a difficult process because it involves legal and judicial processes.

Many questions will arise in the minds of each parent:

How to win child custody?

How to equate the rights of child custody?

How to win child custody without going to court?

How to negotiate child custody in the court?

How to get the best lawyer for child custody cases?

How to be a good single parent?

Some answers to the questions above are:

Remain calm, thoughtful and polite when in court or when talking with your spouse.

This will be the assessment for you that you are the parents who deserve your parenting.

Talk with your spouse, your family and your spouse family.
This is an effort to avoid this case comes to court.
Be open and say anything to your lawyer although that’s very personal,
this will greatly assist your lawyer to carry out their duties.

Any results you get, be encouraged to accept and believe that your children will be fine in the right hands.

To learn more about child custody, please visit our website:

Duration : 0:4:54

Technorati Tags: alienation, attorney, child, children, custody, divorce, family, father, forms, grandparents, guidelines, help, law, lawyer, lawyers, legal, legality, Men, mother, online, Parental, rights, support, visitation

Duration : 0:1:41

Technorati Tags: alienation, Denial, fathers, of, parent, rights, visitation

Dr. Lorandos provides a general overview of Parental Alienation Syndrome

Over half of all marriages today end in divorce. Years ago the mother automatically retained custody of the child and the father got visitation. The laws were changed to make it easier for the father to obtain custody as it is for the mother. Although at first blush this looked like a progressive change in the law, it has caused enumerable problems. What has occurred is an increased competition between the parents to gain custody because now either parent has a chance for custody. This competition becomes extremely bitter and often results in creating false accusations of physical or sexual abuse. This phenomena has been examined and researched and has now been given the name Parental Alienation Syndrome. The manifestations where signs of parental alienation exist when a child has a preoccupation with denigration and criticism of one parent that is unjustified or exaggerated. It appears that the child has one loved parent and one hated parent. Laymen can very easily see the manifestations of parental alienation, the child always sides with one parent against the other. What is not so easy to see is the mechanism by which one parent, the loved parent, can alienate or turn the child against the other parent, or the hated parent. There are four causes of parental alienation. Brainwashing by the loved parent, subconscious and unconscious programming by the loved parent, contributions which come wholly from within the child and situational factors. It would take an hour to describe in detail what is involved in these four areas. However, here is a thumbnail description.

Brainwashing is the mechanism known by most laymen. Brainwashing is the conscious programming of the child by the loved parent against the hated parent. This is done by a campaign of denigration against the hated parent by calling him an abandoner, an adulterer or irresponsible home breaker. The actual underlying reasons for the divorce are never talked about with the child. The child is informed that the father does not love the child, never spends money on the child, is an alcoholic, is violent or uses drugs. In brainwashing the loved parent is fully aware that they are attempting to turn the child against the hated parent. Another mechanism is termed the unconscious factors. In fact, unconscious factors are far more effective than brainwashing. The loved parent or the person who is causing the alienation can profess a total innocence about what they are doing because they in fact do not realize the damage that they are causing. There are thousands of unconscious factors that can turn a child against one of its parents. These would include such things as a frightened voice when speaking with the ex-spouse, frivolous reasons for missing visitation, such as a headache or purposefully scheduling events during ex-spouses visitation time, adultifying children by giving them the decision on whether or not to have visits and then supporting them when they do not want to visit, making children feel guilty about time spent with the ex-spouse by telling them how much you will miss them if they go, having continuous arguments with the ex-spouse in front of the child concerning visitation or money. A major alienating factor is moving away from the hated parent to find better employment when the true underlying reason for the move is to destroy the amount of time that the ex-spouse can spend with the child. A long campaign of subconscious programming is more effective than overt brainwashing, it destroys the bond between the ex-spouse and the child.
The third factor that influences a child to make false accusations is one that is not normally recognized. This involves factors within the child that are independent of the parents. The child who has a basic psychological bond with one parent that is stronger than that with the hated parent will do anything to maintain that bond between the loved parent and the child. Remember, the child feels that they were once abandoned by the hated parent when the divorce occurred. The child does not want to be abandoned a second time by taking sides against the loved parent and will do anything to maintain that bond with the loved parent. One of the ways that this is done is by making complaints against the hated parent. The child then gathers support from the loved parent. The child is fearful of expressing love for the hated parent for fear that it will displease the loved parent. The complaints can start out as minor complaints, but then the child custody battle becomes ferocious and the small complaints escalate into accusations of child abuse. Situational factors are the fourth mechanism for parental alienation. The false accusation is often made at one of two moments
http://www.PASattorney.com

Duration : 0:7:23

Technorati Tags: alienation, Parental, Syndrome

Duration : 0:3:2

Technorati Tags: alex baldwin, alienation, child, child custody, Counseling, Counselor, custody, divorce, divorce court, Doctor Gearing, Doctor Sylvia, Doctor Sylvia Gearing, Dr Sylvia, Dr Sylvia Gearing, Gearing, Gearing Up, GearingUp, GearingUp com, Litigation;, mental health, mental health counseling, parent, Parental, parental-alienation, parenting, psychologist, psychology, Richard Warshak, Sylvia Gearing, therapist, therapy, warshak, www GearingUp com

Duration : 0:3:32

Technorati Tags: alien, alienation, child, child custody, children, Counseling, Counselor, custody, Dad, divorce, divorce court, Doctor Gearing, Doctor Sylvia, Doctor Sylvia Gearing, Dr Sylvia, Dr Sylvia Gearing, father, Gearing, Gearing Up, GearingUp, GearingUp com, mental health, mental health counseling, mom, mother, parent, Parental, parental-alienation, parents, psychologist, psychology, Sylvia Gearing, therapist, therapy, www GearingUp com

Part 2:

Part 3:

More information:

Kevin Brown’s story in The Seoul Times:

http://theseoultimes.com/ST/?url=/ST/db/read.php?idx=8647

From The Shadows (A film about parental child abduction in Japan)

http://www.fromtheshadowsmovie.com/english/index.html

From The Shadows promo:

Oyako Network

http://blog.goo.ne.jp/oyakonet

http://oyakonetwork.web.fc2.com

Father’s Website

http://fatherswebsite.com

http://www.youtube.com/kwbrow2

Parental alienation syndrome

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parental_alienation_syndrome

Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hague_Convention_on_the_Civil_Aspects_of_International_Child_Abduction

Duration : 0:10:1

Technorati Tags: ABDUCTION, alienation, Aspects, brown, child, civil, Convention, custody, Hague, International, japan, kevin, of, on, Parental, Syndrome, The