Domestic Violence and Child Custody
One of the most dangerous myths about family violence is the presumption that family court will protect domestic abuse suvivors. Learn how you can protect yourself and your children.
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Tags: abusive, child, court, custody, domestic, family, relationship, relationships, violence
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
LOL the irony is …
LOL the irony is your posting on youtube for video for women who experience abuse saying woman make up lies in abusive situations…what are you a woman or something? either your a or your guilty of abuse… these men in turn use the justice system so they can “pretend” they’ve been the victim….yea your right Joey I hate like that too. They end up being someone’s cell mate and get funked everyday..they are called goofs. Women have to protect themselves and ya men ARE DAWGS ha
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
KuteyKristy:
I have …
KuteyKristy:
I have never been accused of domestic violence or of any crime (except when chatting on-line). I notice how quickly you made a false allegation against me without even noticing the irony. You prove the point that many women make false allegations without seeing any moral issue.
To me, this is human rights issue. If there is no due process and proof is not required, then every man has lost his basic human rights.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
youre right bro… …
youre right bro… to women like this its a game and the kids are simply pieces. theyre so absorbed in being a victim they dont even see their own cinicism. i got the impresssion this video is saying get them before they get you ladies… men are dawgs…
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
i hate like …
i hate like that… they involve themselve so deeply in being a victim that they propogate the victimstance even through court proceedings…. this actually made no sense to me but what do i know.. oh well…… im glad i dont know this bitch…
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
and yea not very …
and yea not very many woman have the PHYSICAL power to use the intimidating and scare tactics that abuse men use. They are bigger, stronger, and play head games. If any man tells you his ex was the abusive one, i myself would prepare to get hit at any time, cuz these guys lie and lie and lie, and PRETEND they are the victims and use the children, their family and anyone they can who will believe their sorry sack of lies….WAKE up and WALK away!
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
proudguy that isn’t …
proudguy that isn’t the point of this video.. you are obviously an abuser who wants to blame the justice system and play the poor me song and dance.The point of the video is abusive guys will continue to use the justice system to abuse the woman. by getting all his friends, family and court system to keep stalking the woman…
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
The point is that a …
The point is that a woman can call 911 alleging that her husband assaulted her. She can use that later to get leverage in divorce proceedings.
Might their be false allegations of domestic violence, so as to give the woman the upper hand in future proceedings? That is the game.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
The family court …
The family court system is run in order to make money for all the people involved lawyers,court reporters,police,judges dont be fooled F*#k children Money is your Lord and they all bowed every stupid religion
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
My boyfriend was …
My boyfriend was married to a horrible abusive woman who verbally and physically abused him, kept him from his friends and family, and nearly destroyed his life. He finally got out and is a very happy man. But I know he still hurts from what happened to him,
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
What a load of …
What a load of sexist crap!
How about men who are abused and can’t even call for help because the police has been trained to always arrest the man regardless of any evidence at the site (VAWA act)?
How about men who are trapped in marriages from and can’t get out because they will be completely ruined, and will never see their kids again!
How about men who can’t see their children because their ex filed fake domestic violence charges!?
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
Another dangerous …
Another dangerous myth: Only men commit such violence.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
ha ha ha.
ha ha ha.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
streetdoggy
Dont …
streetdoggy
Dont be selfish, bang, bang…and we lose another great dad?
You are very much needed, so dont do anything stupid if things take a turn for the worst.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
I did not want to …
I did not want to represent my self because i did not know about these law’s, until we filed for Divorce/Custody and than i was shocked.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
“sosayus” I believe …
“sosayus” I believe in equal parenting Time. I think it’s very important for my Child and me.
I never Fought for Primary custody, I will never take my baby from her Mother.
I swear if I am alive no Court and no Police will be able to take my Child before they will kill me.
I set these rules, and i wont change them for anything.
Enough is enough. That will cross my LINE.
I will go all in. If i have to Fight until my last bullet I will.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
I hear your pain ‘ …
I hear your pain ‘streetdoggy’ no point howlin at the moon…
Next the court is going to divorce you from your child and your money… Your ex is going to make you look like the wife beater from hell… DO NOT GET A LAWYER coz they wont and cant help! You must represent yourself in court. Hope this helps…
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
Every Psychologist …
Every Psychologist in the World will tell u this:
Mother and Father are equally important to healthy Development of the child Physically and emotionally.
And they Both play a Major role in to making the child ready for Adult life.
Now, every Parent out there who is the Reason why the other Parent is not allowed to be with the CHILD same time as you, than you are the biggest Child abuser.
Shame on you, and don’t look at ur self as some kind of hero, rather than a Terrorist.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
“sharonfayfaulkner’ …
“sharonfayfaulkner’ ur wrong….
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
“mommywifelove” …
“mommywifelove” Listen, when a Kid is happy without a Parent, than there is smth Wrong.
1) Parent is bad, He/she made history of bad relationship with the child.
2) The Custody Parent brainwash Kid’s.
Maybe in ur case ur Right, maybe ur dealing with a really bad “FATHER”.
However, 80% of cases is the Mother who use the Kid’s to benefit for her self.
Than after she get’s the Kid’s she Fights to secure her income by turning Kid’s againt the Father.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
“sosayus” yes ur …
“sosayus” yes ur 100% correct.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
Long Story short: …
Long Story short: few Criminal Courts later, several thousand$, we went to Trial where the Judge throw all the cases out and she was ANGRY at my EX-WIFE or pretending to be, and she the Judge said: NO CRIME WAS EVER COMMITED.
I won Equal joint Custody of my Daughter later in Family Courts.
Total cost me $30,000, and 9 months out of work, and many many Potentials.
Such as using my CDL with all Endorsements.
Feminist law’s should change.
We need equal law’s. women are abusing these Law’s
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
You have been …
You have been arrested for: Child Abuse, (class A felony), Forced Entry, leaving a crime scene, for threatening the Mother etc etc 2 or 3 class a Felonies.
She than filed for Restrain order, that meant i lost all Temporary Visitation Rights with my Child.
I swear to God I have not even seen my Daughter that day, she was sleeping in another room. Since my ex wife look really Good, Police were more busy trying to be nice to her than knowing the Truth.They just told me that they DON’T believe me
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
Police asked for my …
Police asked for my Name/last, I said yes sir that’s me, he said why don’t u come here and Explain.
I went there, and they told me why I removed a necklace from my Daughter and I had threatened the Mother.
I told them that i left at around 8:00 or 8:15 pm, because we were not agreeing in Child Custody and that I have an attorney who represent me in child custody case.
He said: We don’t believe you anything u say put ur hands behind ur back, first time ever getting questioned by police.
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
Continue…
Feb, …
Continue…
Feb,15,2009, at 7:35 pm, My ex Wife called me and Invited me at her House to Talk about trying to reach an Agreement on Child Custody and if u like to eat, she said she had the food ready.
I said sure, I was happy to talk about trying to agree on child custody.
After 15 min, i left due to the Conversation getting heated.
at 9:30 pm Police called me and asked me why i left the Crime scene!?!?! I said Sir u may have the wrong phone Number. CONTINUE
January 27th, 2010 at 12:32 am
My nose have been …
My nose have been broken twice in the same place. My ex-wife Punched me while going through Child custody Fight.
I did not call Police due to not wanting to complicate Child Custody case, fearing that My Daughter may be taken away from me.
After she punched me, I threatened with Police she than claimed ” She feared me, and she acted in self defense”.
Knowing femenist law’s out there, calling Police would have not done me any good. It would just Complicated my Child Custody case.
July 25th, 2010 at 9:52 am
Men who threaten to take away the kids are engaging in post separation violence. It is common for batterers to threaten to take children away from the battered woman by proving her to be an unfit mother. For this reason, some lawyers advise women not to tell courts or mediators about child abuse or domestic abuse because, by doing so, they risk losing custody to the alleged abuser!
September 20th, 2010 at 9:27 pm
My grandchildren are now thousands of miles away after a judge in Hawaii granted physical custody of them to their father who is a convicted domestic violence perpetrator. What’s the point of all of the talk when it is clear that the courts/legal system isn’t listening and perpetually sacrafices the children’s well being. “Helping keep me informed on custody issues…” What the hell good is that? I am well informed. Why can’t the courts become informed?! Take a look at the intro to the book “Domestic Violence, Abuse and Child Custody.” The studies and stats are documented. Why can’t we educate the courts? So what….we become informed in order to understand that it doesn’t matter what we do, the abuser who seeks custody USUALLY gets it! It’s disgusting.
September 20th, 2010 at 9:45 pm
I am not saying that there are not wives/mothers out there who use the children as pawns, bad mouth the dad, get what they can or whatever. But when it comes to abusers….it’s a different scenario altogether. 70% of men who seek full custody of the children through the legal system are abusers. Why? To either use it as an attempt to get the mother to come back and/or to punish her. They are narcisistic and have learned very well throughout their lives how to use their charm, manipulation techniques and LIES in a way that makes it difficult for a “normal” person not to believe them. And they use it on the courts just like they do on anyone else. A “normal” person, who truly has the children’s interest at heart is not going to keep children thousands of miles away from their entire extended family or their mother.