How do I help my bf with his child custody/visitation without hurting his cases?
We have been for a little over 1 yr and have been together 7mos. I have 4 kids from 1 previous relationship and he has 3 kids from 3 previous relationships. Since we have been together his 1st childs mother would not let him see his child at all. He was seeing his 2nd child on a regular basis but when the mother found out about me she would limit the time he could see her or not let him see her all together. The 3rd child was just born 1 month ago and is filing for full custody. In the last 4 mos. I have been helping him fight to establish custody/visitation through the courts to eliminate the probs he has had with his childrens mothers. I was just wondering how to be helpful without hurting his chances in court.
He is not trying to take any of the kids away from the mothers he just wants to have them in his life.
I was with my kids father for 10 yrs and had to leave him due to his lack of responsibility towards me and his kids.
The mother of the 3rd child is filing for full custody he wants joint.
The best thing you can do is stay out of it. Just be supportive and if he needs your help then help but I would be really wary of getting involved. He doesn't have a real good track record now does he. Was he cheating on you when you started seeing each other or was he cheating on number three?????
Anyhow I would let him sort it out and if you want to be around well just be there when he needs you.
May 24th, 2007 at 3:32 am
The best thing you can do is stay out of it. Just be supportive and if he needs your help then help but I would be really wary of getting involved. He doesn't have a real good track record now does he. Was he cheating on you when you started seeing each other or was he cheating on number three?????
Anyhow I would let him sort it out and if you want to be around well just be there when he needs you.
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May 24th, 2007 at 3:37 am
You want to help him? Don't be the fourth fool woman to have a baby by him.
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May 24th, 2007 at 3:48 am
why don't you atay out of it
do realized that this situation is history reapeating itself
3 kids with 3 different baby mama
how many time does this child have to be expose to this man
many relationships or should I say different babymamas
the woman is protecting her child
she has her pririority get yours you have 4 children
so take care of them and as ou can see this man is not a stable father or else he will have use protection ans not trying to populate the world
for a mother with 4 children you should know better
the 3rd was born a month ago
so he basically left these woman and move before the children are born and when the need him the most
You should those women as example
REMEMBER GIRL ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF IN THE OTHER WOMAN SHOW
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May 24th, 2007 at 3:59 am
Why is this man trying to take a 1 month old baby from its mother? Who's going to take care of it–you? Ridiculous! What kind of people are you? Here's a man who has laid up and had 3 children from 3 different women. You already have 4 kids by a man you obviously weren't married to, and you're working on another one. Has anybody in your world heard of birth control? Absolutely ridiculous!
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