How do you deal with exes meddling relatives and significant other in a child visitation/custody case?
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February 22nd, 2010 at 4:22 pm
Get a court order and remind everyone that you have one and it will be adhered to.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 4:36 pm
I agree with Alexis Darling. But I would also add that you should keep in mind that you are thinking of the best interests of the child. They come first, and always should. Everyone else’s opinion is secondary, at best.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 4:53 pm
Significant other is the least of your problems. The meddling relatives are blood and family even after the divorce. When you marry a person you marry their family too. It’s a package deal. Now that your divorced you have all those people to deal with too not just the pissed off ex.
Just remember to try to do whats good for the child not what’s good for you or the ex. Try your best to put petty bs aside when dealing with each other. The child learns from your behavior.
Use this life experience as a good example of what will happen once you marry. This new significant other…..if you marry later on….you get their family too…another package deal.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 5:11 pm
Let a court settle the specifics and make sure everyone knows what it entitles. There are almost always going to be problems in child custody cases and family/friends choosing sides you just need to be strong and remind everyone that its what best for the child that matters.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 5:18 pm
when it comes to stuff like this you just have to be blut about how you feel. tell them to shut the f up. they wont like it and you will make short term angryrelatives but in the end everyone will come around. tell them this is about the kids not you me or anyone else. hope it helps
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February 22nd, 2010 at 5:55 pm
You have to do what the court has said regarding visitation and custody. If you do not, it will only bite you back. That is your part. If you do not have to talk to them (relatives or other), then do not do it if it bothers you. However, just remember the courts also look at the parent who is easiest to work with. The one who does not plan games, lies or hide info, will not do good in a custody case. The one who is most willing to work with the other parent is the one who comes out on top. If relatives or significant other say or do things that are just wrong, document it. Write down the date and time and what was said by whom. It really is handy, should you encounter a problem with them, Believe me!!!
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February 22nd, 2010 at 6:28 pm
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